team bonding
november 20, 2004
it was the day where all my team mates had decided that we all have our team bonding. it's just the day where all of us, not all of us but some of us went to a bar to drink, have some fun, talk about silly, funny things about certain situations that are really funny in all of us.
ok first before everything happened during that night, at work we all had our work done accordingly and talking to our team mates if they will attend the team building. so my first thought was i will not come. well i'm not feeling ok with some of them, because of the situation that i thought was good, or whatsoever.... so i've asked them in an indirect way if they will come. ok so they said yes and they will come and they will have some fun.... so me instead i told them that i don't know if i'm coming, let's just see. ok so three of my colleagues said that they will just follow on where will be the gatherings, because they have an appointment with the doctor and whatsoever.
our shift ends at 2 pm but the team leader told us that we'll have a meeting for an hour to hav an over tm. ok so we were still at work doing nothing for an hour, waiting for 3 pm just to start the gatherings. everything was ok till they said that our first stop was at the mall. ok so here's my two friends saying that they don't have money and i do to, i said to them. so we just forced our selves and we first went to an ATM to withdraw money, i really thank GOD that i managed to keep a gran, or else i'm plus-bankrupt person. so we had a chit chat and stuff.
first stop was in the mall. we went to eat there. i was forced to eat there although i'm not hungry. well how is it like i'm the only one that didn't order. of course humiliating and plus-pathetic. so i ordered something to eat joined them eating. forced my stomach to stuff the food that i'm eating.
i took a picture of the whole group and just noticed that one of our team mate was not captured. so a friend grab the camera and took another shot, but i just now i was not captured and also the others at my side. ok fine, whatever.
after we ate there we now went straight to a grill restaurant and had few drinks. i was damn pissed because they always give me a lot o f bottles. i really don't like the taste of beer much. so i ordered 2 coke in can and mixed it with my beer just to eliminate the taste. ok so people that surrounds me began to ask me what ma i doing?. i told them that i like mixing drinks and it's delicious. during that time that i mixed the coke and the beer, another team mate just arrived. and began to make stories about mixing drinks and stuff, and also i was able to manage to ask him about certain things that i know about something from him. the reasn is that i've noticed that he's talking at all and i don't want him to feel that it's worthless that he came, because he did not even enjoyed at all.
ok so i started to think of different things that i can ask him, and that is his stay in thailand. we had a long discussion regarding that. well another thing was a coworker was the one that makes the bonding more fun, he even managed to talk about a lot of funny things that all of us would barely laugh so hard that you would even cry for laughing. he was always there making fun of everything. i'd really enjoyed that day.
the next stop was in a billiard place. during that time some of mty co workers went home already, and some even tried to play billiards. so we started playing and stuff and we even took pictures of them.
i started to talk to this 2 co workers which i had already established closeness, or shall i say they're becoming my bestfriend. they were both nice just like the other coworker that i had, we were always together to go home and stuff, but when the closeness was established he already resigned. so this is the same thing that happened to the 2 other co workers that i had established closeness to each other, will resign. i event told them that everytime i had established closeness to people here, what'll i hear from them is that they'll resign. they had also said that to me, the same way they felt. i was really damn sad and lonely. i don't want to miss people really, especially if i found the true friend. actually i also found true friends here but they don't care about me. so not that true. but anyways these were the people that i had a very long conversation with. during our travel to the grill restaurant, playing billiards and after playing billiards. our last stop ever was in a cafè. we had a few cofee drinks there just to refresh ourselves from being drank.
that was the time that i've realized that one of my co-worker was very good with establishing the continuity of bonding with others. he manages to make it stronger till the last time of the day. i even told myself that he can be a team leader really, because he can manage the team more than someone can. so we our chit chat at each other and made the day history in our lives. the day that i felt complete and satisfied. i hope that those 2 co-workers that will resign will cancel their resignation, and they would still consider working here. also staying here as my good old friends.
i thank god that at least i had exprienced having a true friend that i haven't experienced before, although it's just a short amount of time being with them at the same time. i hope that there would be somebody like one of the two co-workers that i have, that would establish frinedship forever anywhere i go, he's also there....how envious i am seeing that.....
i really envy them both because they've managed having a good friendship, they both resigns just to be together, they will work in a same company, live together in the same house.... to cut it short, they've established good, strong, unbreakable, indisposable bonding, and that's what i've been craving for. if only i could find somebody who would be like that. who would accept me, understand me, and most importantly who like me as what i am. to have this bond.
well my only wish for them is to have a good life, success, good health, to make their bond more stronger.
They are blessed and will be. god speed for them both. well i'm gonna miss them ei! i'll see ya around the world.
it was the day where all my team mates had decided that we all have our team bonding. it's just the day where all of us, not all of us but some of us went to a bar to drink, have some fun, talk about silly, funny things about certain situations that are really funny in all of us.
ok first before everything happened during that night, at work we all had our work done accordingly and talking to our team mates if they will attend the team building. so my first thought was i will not come. well i'm not feeling ok with some of them, because of the situation that i thought was good, or whatsoever.... so i've asked them in an indirect way if they will come. ok so they said yes and they will come and they will have some fun.... so me instead i told them that i don't know if i'm coming, let's just see. ok so three of my colleagues said that they will just follow on where will be the gatherings, because they have an appointment with the doctor and whatsoever.
our shift ends at 2 pm but the team leader told us that we'll have a meeting for an hour to hav an over tm. ok so we were still at work doing nothing for an hour, waiting for 3 pm just to start the gatherings. everything was ok till they said that our first stop was at the mall. ok so here's my two friends saying that they don't have money and i do to, i said to them. so we just forced our selves and we first went to an ATM to withdraw money, i really thank GOD that i managed to keep a gran, or else i'm plus-bankrupt person. so we had a chit chat and stuff.
first stop was in the mall. we went to eat there. i was forced to eat there although i'm not hungry. well how is it like i'm the only one that didn't order. of course humiliating and plus-pathetic. so i ordered something to eat joined them eating. forced my stomach to stuff the food that i'm eating.
i took a picture of the whole group and just noticed that one of our team mate was not captured. so a friend grab the camera and took another shot, but i just now i was not captured and also the others at my side. ok fine, whatever.
after we ate there we now went straight to a grill restaurant and had few drinks. i was damn pissed because they always give me a lot o f bottles. i really don't like the taste of beer much. so i ordered 2 coke in can and mixed it with my beer just to eliminate the taste. ok so people that surrounds me began to ask me what ma i doing?. i told them that i like mixing drinks and it's delicious. during that time that i mixed the coke and the beer, another team mate just arrived. and began to make stories about mixing drinks and stuff, and also i was able to manage to ask him about certain things that i know about something from him. the reasn is that i've noticed that he's talking at all and i don't want him to feel that it's worthless that he came, because he did not even enjoyed at all.
ok so i started to think of different things that i can ask him, and that is his stay in thailand. we had a long discussion regarding that. well another thing was a coworker was the one that makes the bonding more fun, he even managed to talk about a lot of funny things that all of us would barely laugh so hard that you would even cry for laughing. he was always there making fun of everything. i'd really enjoyed that day.
the next stop was in a billiard place. during that time some of mty co workers went home already, and some even tried to play billiards. so we started playing and stuff and we even took pictures of them.
i started to talk to this 2 co workers which i had already established closeness, or shall i say they're becoming my bestfriend. they were both nice just like the other coworker that i had, we were always together to go home and stuff, but when the closeness was established he already resigned. so this is the same thing that happened to the 2 other co workers that i had established closeness to each other, will resign. i event told them that everytime i had established closeness to people here, what'll i hear from them is that they'll resign. they had also said that to me, the same way they felt. i was really damn sad and lonely. i don't want to miss people really, especially if i found the true friend. actually i also found true friends here but they don't care about me. so not that true. but anyways these were the people that i had a very long conversation with. during our travel to the grill restaurant, playing billiards and after playing billiards. our last stop ever was in a cafè. we had a few cofee drinks there just to refresh ourselves from being drank.
that was the time that i've realized that one of my co-worker was very good with establishing the continuity of bonding with others. he manages to make it stronger till the last time of the day. i even told myself that he can be a team leader really, because he can manage the team more than someone can. so we our chit chat at each other and made the day history in our lives. the day that i felt complete and satisfied. i hope that those 2 co-workers that will resign will cancel their resignation, and they would still consider working here. also staying here as my good old friends.
i thank god that at least i had exprienced having a true friend that i haven't experienced before, although it's just a short amount of time being with them at the same time. i hope that there would be somebody like one of the two co-workers that i have, that would establish frinedship forever anywhere i go, he's also there....how envious i am seeing that.....
i really envy them both because they've managed having a good friendship, they both resigns just to be together, they will work in a same company, live together in the same house.... to cut it short, they've established good, strong, unbreakable, indisposable bonding, and that's what i've been craving for. if only i could find somebody who would be like that. who would accept me, understand me, and most importantly who like me as what i am. to have this bond.
well my only wish for them is to have a good life, success, good health, to make their bond more stronger.
They are blessed and will be. god speed for them both. well i'm gonna miss them ei! i'll see ya around the world.
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